C'mon, would I lie to you?
I think Wesley is developing his skills as a future litigator - or used car salesman. I don't know if it's part of being four or what, but all of a sudden he wants to negotiate everything. It's like 24 hours of Deal or No Deal.
Here's an example. Last night on the way home Wesley asked me what we were going to have for dinner. I told him we were going to have beef and noodles and green beans. His response" "Tell you what, Mom. How about you just give me stuff that I like and then I will eat it all." I explained that we were having beef and noodles and he could choose to eat it, or not eat it, but that's all there was. Needless to say, Wesley ate his green beans and refused to touch the beef and noodles.
Fast forward a couple of hours and we have a very hungry Wesley on our hands. After about the third time of him telling me how hungry he is, I offered to heat up some beef and noodles for him. "Tell you what," he said. "How about if I try one bite and if I don't like it and puke, you'll make me something else?" Hummm....interesting proposition, but I decided to counter-offer. "You eat one bite - that means chewing it up and swallowing it without puking - and if you don't like it I'll make you something else." Wesley accepted that offer. It took two tries to get a bite without puking, but he did it - then ate mac and cheese.
It wouldn't be so bad if it was just about food, but it's about everything. Wesley tries to cut a deal at bedtime, when it's time to clean up, when it's time to get dressed, when he wants computer time, you name it. We're trying to do some give and take, but there's a limit to how much I'm willing to deal with a preschooler.
In the meantime, can he interest you in a nice piece of land in Florida?