Friday, July 31, 2009
Hot Wheels
Anyhow, when we walked out of the house to see the new car last night, I asked Wesley to look up and down the street and see if he could pick out Kirk's car. That kid must be pretty observant, because he picked it out immediately. He wasn't even that disappointed that it isn't green.
Wesley LOVES Uncle Kirk's new car. He climbed all over the seats. He wanted me to walk him all the way around the car so he could see it from all angles. He asked if we could please go for a ride. Unfortunately, I had to say "no" to that - supposedly because Kirk doesn't have a car seat (even though we could easily put Wesley's in) but I also figured Uncle Kirk didn't want any prolonged exposure to Wesley's strep throat germs. Now that Wesley's no longer contagious though, Kirk might have to take that kid for a spin!
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Strep Throat in the House
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Parenting in Public
I felt even better about our dining success when a mom with four children who all appeared to be under the age of 6 sat down a couple of tables away. It was obvious from the moment she entered the restaurant that she was at her wits end and within the first 5 minutes she had threatened (loudly) to spank her son several times AND to let his dad spank him when they got home. I have nothing against a well timed threat and I will admit that we have spanked Wesley, but I felt so bad for this family - especially since the son wasn't doing anything that I would have thought warranted a spanking. She never followed through with the threat, and when her friend joined her, she calmed down considerably.
To be honest, the whole thing left me pretty conflicted. I felt so bad for the child who was being singled out for bad behavior. Like I said, I didn't notice that he was doing anything, and his mom talked to him in such a different tone of voice than she did her daughters. I felt bad for the mom because she was obviously stretched to her limit. We've all been there, whether we like to admit it or not. I was at the point a couple of weeks ago at the zoo. But most of all, I felt thankful for the lovely meal I had just shared with my family. I was thankful that my boys behaved (this time) and was proud of Wesley for using his manners so well. I wish I had taken a moment give that woman a few words of encouragement. To remind her that whatever was going on will pass and that her children are a gift. To let her know that I've been in her place and, that even though I don't know her name and will probably never see her again, I'll be praying for her and family tonight.
Monday, July 27, 2009
Not Me Monday

I did not wake up super excited on the morning I promised Wesley we could stop and get donuts. It's not a healthy way to start the day and makes me sound WAY too much like a kid.
I did not make a batch of cookies for work for the sole purpose of being able to eat a bunch of the uncooked dough while baking. Nope. Not me
I know I was not the woman who wore some really cute sandals she hadn't worn in 3 years and ended up tearing up her feet so badly her husband had to carry her from the movie theater to the car.
I was not doing a little happy dance about Ryan turning one and us being able to get rid of all the bottles. I would never ever do that!
There's no way I would have thrown the towel in when it came to planning Ryan's first birthday party and essentially hand the whole thing over to my brother, his wife, my hubby and my mom. If I did do that, I probably should have felt a little guilty, right?
When Wesley asked me, "What's wrong with Sanders?" I did not automatically think my cat had died. That would have just been morbid - even if the cat is 13 and definitely looking his age. BTW - if I had thought that, I would have been profoundly relieved to find the cat sitting on the dining room table giving himself a bath.
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Happy Birthday Ryan
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
He's Supposed to be Special
In case you have been living under a rock (or just don't have any preschool aged children in the house) let me tell you a little bit about Special Agent Oso. He is a very cuddly looking bear who is a secret agent in training. He helps children complete special assignments (like brushing their own teeth, doing the dishes, etc.) by doing three special steps. It's a really cute show and Disney did a fantastic job promoting it. Before it even premeired in April, we knew the theme song, the characters and had visited the website - a lot. Wesley LOVES Oso and we have almost every episode on the old DVR.
So what's the problem? There is no Special Agent Oso stuff to be found anywhere! No party decorations, no toys, no clothes - NOTHING!! Not in stores. Not online. No place! Wesley turns 4 in a little over a month and we aren't going to have an Oso party because there's nothing to buy. I can't get him a shirt as a present because they don't seem to exist. Duane is going to break out his cake decorating skills and try to make an Oso cake, but that's the best we can do.
The birthday thing is annoying, but not as bad as the fact that Wesley wants to be Oso for Halloween. Now am I not real creative when it comes to costumes. If I can't buy it someplace or it doesn't involve cutting eye-holes in a sheet to be a ghost, it pretty much doesn't happen. Yes, I realize Halloween is 3 months away. And yes, I realize my son is a preschooler and will probably change his mind before them, but I cannot get this silly worry out of my mind.
Come on Disney! You did your job and got us hooked on the show and the characters. Now let us put a little more money in your obscenely money-lined pockets and put out the Oso merchandise already, OK???? I'm begging you!!!!
Thinking Cap

Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Tiny Bubbles
Monday, July 20, 2009
Not Me Monday

I did not allow yet another stuffed animal into my house just because it looked like Wesley's imaginary cat Fluffy. That would have been crazy on more than one level.
I did not go to three stores in looking for new sandals for Ryan, only to come home and discover an old pair of Wesley's that fit just fine.
I did not debate leaving my children at the zoo because they were behaving like animals - and I certainly did not leave the zoo only to stop at a cupcake store because I wanted a cupcake. That would have been too much like rewarding their bad behavior. Although if I did make that stop, I would have made the boy earn his cupcake by being on his best behavior for the rest of the day.
I could not have been the person who slathered her children in sunscreen to go to pool, but fail to put any on her own back. That would have resulted in me becoming a crispy critter.
I know I would never ever put a plastic bag on a burner that was recently turned off and end up melting the darn thing onto our flat burner stove. That would have been dangerous and careless and definitely NOT something I would do.Saturday, July 18, 2009
This Place is a Zoo
Yesterday marked the worst trip I have had to the zoo to date. Just thinking about it gives me a headache and I've debating not blogging about it and pretend it didn't happen. It's not that anything went catastrophically wrong, but not a whole lot went right. It started out with a grey, gloomy day that was threatening rain. I had planned to meet two of my friends and their kids at the zoo and decided to brave the weather anyhow. The very first thing I did at the zoo was purchase a couple of kid sized rain ponchos. I figured that even if I didn't use them, I could throw them in the diaper bag and we'd have them for the time that we will get caught in the rain.
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Not Exactly Goldilocks
I was in the front room with Ryan and Wesley went into the bathroom. He was gone for quite a while, so Ryan and I took a little stroll into the kitchen (right next to the bathroom) to make sure everything was OK. I could hear Wesley tearing toilet paper off the roll and talking. "Oh! That one is too tiny!" (rip) "Oh! That one is too teeny!" (rip) " Oh! That one is no good!" (rip) "Oh! That one is just right!"
My Kind of Vacation Day
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Monday, July 13, 2009
I'm Getting Natural Highlights
Does everyone see the picture of the adorable little toddler above? Yep, that's my Ryan. That's the child I have repeatedly said will give me LOTS of grey hair in the years to come. I've decided that maybe that isn't the best thing for me to say. Not because I'm worried about any kind of effect on the kid's self esteem. Nope. I'm starting to think I shouldn't say that because it makes me sound old. So from now on, I will refrain from saying that Ryan is giving me grey hair and will instead say he's giving me natural highlights. For some reason it just sounds better to me. Now you may be asking what such a sweet looking little boy could have done (recently) to give me natural highlights. Well, let me tell you about the little adventure we had while trying to leave the house this morning.I leave the house between 7:20 and 7:30 every morning. Most mornings I spend the last couple of minutes in the house microwaving some breakfast or filling sippy cups for the boys. As I was going about the final preparations this morning (at 7:15), Ryan toddled over to the phone stand in the kitchen and picked up the cordless phone. I wasn't too worried about that, after all, it kept him entertained while I got my coffee ready. After a moment I heard the dial tone and realized Ryan had managed to turn the speaker on. Once again, I wasn't too worried. But then I heard dialing, and the sound of a phone ringing on the other end! I leaped across the kitchen, snatched the phone out of Ryan's hand and shut it off before more than one ring passed. A quick look at the screen showed me that he had managed to hit the button to dial my friend Kate. A moment later, the phone in my hand rang. I answered to hear Kate ask, "Did you call?" For a split second I thought about lying, but caller ID has kind of put an end to that option. "No," I answered sheepishly, "but Ryan did." Thank goodness he dialed Kate who found the humor in the situation instead of some random person who would have been ticked off about their phone ringing at 7:15.
We finally made it out the back door. Since Ryan has really gotten the hang of walking, I usually let him walk out the door onto the porch and then I help him down the stairs and to the car. This morning he walked out the back door and straight over to the chairs on the porch. One of the chairs held his bubble lion and a bottle of bubbles, and Ryan thought 7:20 was the perfect time to get some bubbles going. I walked over and said, "We aren't going to play bubbles right now. We have to get in the car," as I reached for his hand. Ryan swatted my hand away with a loud, frustrated screech and went back to the bubbles. After this happened a second time, I picked Ryan up and carried him down the steps before putting him down. I reached for his, he did the swat and screech, then turned around and climbed up the steps to the chairs and bubbles! What a stubborn little boy! I can feel those natural highlights coming on now.
Not Me Monday

It couldn't have been me that tried to triple book myself for plans one night. I am much more organized than that, right?
There is no way I was kind of glad I had to miss my Pilates class one night - especially since it means next week will be even harder.
I did not berate myself for only reading 2 books this week. Um, hello, that's still pretty good.
I would never have pouted one night until my hubby baked me something delicious to cheer me up. That would have been absolutely childish.
Sunday, July 12, 2009
Any Excuse for a Party
Now that you fully understand Wesley's frame of mind most of the time, imagine he excitement when he saw me wrapping a present at the breakfast table yesterday.
Wesley: Is that a present for me?
Mommy: Nope. I'm going to a baby party today and this is the present for the baby. I went to a baby shower, but thought he'd understand "baby party" better.
Wesley: Am I going too?
Mommy: No Honey, I'm going to go with Aunt Sus.
Wesley: But I want to go.
What followed was nearly 10 minutes of Wesley wheeling and dealing to try and go to the party with me. Could he go if he ate all his breakfast. Could he go if was really good. I tried telling him that his name was not on the invitation and it would be bad manners for him to go if he hadn't been invited. Finally I told that the baby party was just for girls and since he was a boy, he couldn't go (which is kind of the truth - baby showers are almost always all women). Wesley seemed to accept that since he knows he's a boy.
Daddy arrived home a short time later. Wesley ran to the door as fast as he could and said, "Mommy is going to party, but I can't go because it's just for baby girls!" Um....not quite what I said, but it got the job done.
Friday, July 10, 2009
Which Way?
Wednesday, July 08, 2009
Ready Reference?
Tuesday, July 07, 2009
Monday, July 06, 2009
Red, White and Pink Eye
I love how literally kids take things. Wesley heard me talking about pink eye yesterday and had this little "conversation" with himself. "Bear has brown eyes. Ryan has blue eyes. I have pink eyes." In fact, the only way I can get him to cooperate for his eye drops is to tell him that they are going to make his eyes blue again.
Not Me Monday

I did not forget to buy a baptism gift for a July 5th baptism until July 4th. If that were true, I might have learned that shopping at Meijer on the 4th of July seriously limits one's options when buying baptism gifts.
Saturday, July 04, 2009
Boom Day


The boys were pretty much our entertainment while we waited for the fireworks to start. Ryan and Wesley played Babytruck and I played Ryan Lion with the boys. Note the second picture below. That's pretty much my life these days - one child happy and one child screaming.

As time for the fireworks creeped closer, our house started to fill up. Although, in all honesty, it was our yard that filled up. One of the perks of living downtown is being so close to the action on Boom Day. Of course, that means all of our friends park at our place. We visited with the D. family and did some sparklers to pass the time.



We were pretty content to watch the fireworks on TV. Wesley was still awake thanks to an
earlier catnap (see picture at the right). He said he wanted to go outside and watch them, but once he was out there, he decided it was much too loud. He ran back in and sat wedged between Uncle Kirk and Aunt Susan. Ryan slept through the whole thing. It was pretty good day.


































